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Sunday, July 5, 2009

I am not a widow

So what am I called now? There is no word for the girlfriend. My wonderful, loving boyfriend of almost 3 years passed away late Friday night July 3, 2009. He was surrounded by all who loved him. I am honored, grateful and thankful he loved me. And I will thank him everyday for the rest of my life for that. Please workforce, grab the ones you love and make sure they know you love them everyday. Watch over me Todd. I love you always.

posted by Kat at 8:17 am  

13 Comments »

  1. Kat, He loved you and I love you too. Todd will be with us always. For all love purposes you are his widow and I am his grieving mom. We can be somewhat at peace knowing we were loving by a wonderful boy and man. I love you Kat.
    Aunt JuJu

    Comment by Aunt JuJu — July 6, 2009 @ 9:11 am

  2. I am a co-worker of Bill Waterman. My prayers and thoughts are definitely with you and the family.

    Comment by Chris Normand — July 6, 2009 @ 9:25 am

  3. My sincere condolences, Kat.

    Comment by Carla — July 6, 2009 @ 11:18 am

  4. Hi Tina,
    NH has prayed a lot for Todd as well as for you and his family!!! I want you to know that I am truly sad to hear about your loss. Todd was a gift in your life. He crossed your path for a reason. Leaving you with a deeper sense of happiness and love. May you find comfort in Todd’s memory as well as the support of others. May God’s Blessing be upon you today and always.
    Love,
    Karin

    Comment by Karin Goscinski-Breton — July 6, 2009 @ 12:39 pm

  5. Kat….The word for you is family! You will ALWAYS be a part of our family… we love you and feel blessed that you were part of Todd’s life…

    Comment by Elena — July 6, 2009 @ 12:46 pm

  6. You are called an Angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Comment by felicia — July 6, 2009 @ 1:04 pm

  7. My heart goes out to you! I feel the pain in the words of your blog. I can bet you he was just as lucky to have your love! So that’s the word “His Love” lives on!

    Keep on Rockin’
    We love what you do!
    Happy 29th

    Comment by kathy kellar — July 6, 2009 @ 2:59 pm

  8. I feel for you and am totally aware of your situation.I have been with my “Boyfriend” for over 21 years.I will not be recognized as anything but that.We talked of marriage several years ago but he got cold feet.He can’t claim me on his taxes because of an outdated law on Louisiana books about cohabitating.I’m trying to talk to our local gov. to abolish this law.He has lost over $20,000 in tax refunds.Also,if he dies,the only ones who will reap his social security will be the unemployed and illeagles.Not Me.Frankly I think that sucks.Sorry to hear of your loss.I’ll be sitting on the bench with you one day.

    Comment by Suzanne Bourgeois — July 7, 2009 @ 6:37 am

  9. Kat,

    I’m very sorry for you loss. Hang in there girl.

    Comment by john rahaim — July 7, 2009 @ 6:46 am

  10. Hi Kat–just wanted to give you my deepest condolences. I’m one of those rare and fortunate individuals who have experienced “death” and lived to tell about it. So, I can tell you with 100% certainty that your boyfriend still lives–eternal life does exist–he’s just living in a different realm than us and he is in a trouble-free, wonderful place that he always believed he would be. Your love will always be with him and vice-versa. Please take care…Hurst, a.k.a. “Miracle Man”.

    Comment by Hurst Bousegard — July 7, 2009 @ 8:34 am

  11. I am truly sorry for your loss. Although you wasn’t yet his wife, you were a very important person in his life and that should count for something. I know this is a difficult time for you, my prayers are with you.

    Comment by Madeline — July 7, 2009 @ 11:42 pm

  12. My Condolences to you Kat.
    You never get over the loss,but the hurt will fade…in time.

    Comment by Steve — July 8, 2009 @ 12:51 pm

  13. I am very sorry about your boyfriend.

    Comment by Mike Kay — July 9, 2009 @ 5:56 am

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