So I got this email over the weekend…
Hey Joe Breezy,
My name is Rosanna, I listen to your show everynight and I was wondering if you can ask your listeners for some advice on my behalf? I’ve been with my boyfriend Jesse for about 2 years now and we’re considering marriage. However; I just found out he has a best girlfriend that he cuddles with from time to time. He says they’re just really close and have never crossed the line. I believe him but its still hard to deal with. Is this normal for him to do that or am I just being naïve?
Ladies, this is all YOU! Would it be okay for your man to cuddle with one of his best girlfriends? Or do you have a guy friend that you cuddle with and it’s harmless? 766-1079 or leave your thoughts below….
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The main thing you need to be concerned with is the fact that it bugs you that he has this friend and he has not dumped her as a friend. Your gut is making you weary for a reason. Listen to it! A guy who truely loves you knows what to do and not to do to keep you around. I have a guy friend whom I’ve known since I was 12 and I’m 21 now. Whenever I am in a relationship he’s just my friend.. and I mean that. But when we get bored and are single or in a relationship where it’s on again off again we tend to turn to each other because we are best friends.. and let me tell you sometimes some more than friendly things happen. However, if i met the right guy and my friendship made him uncomfortable.. I’d make the sacrafice… goodluck girl!! Don’t settle.. you want your man cuddling with you and you only!
Rosanne, I totally agree with Meagan, You don’t want your man cuddling with anyone but you. I also have a best guy friend..but we both know our limits. Girl you are not at all being naive… Let him know that you don’t like it. You need to set your foot down.
Woah.. if you guys are thinkin of marriage.. then he definently loves you, so that is even more of a reason to tell him exactaly how you feel about that. No man (who is in a relationship) should be cuddling with anyone else but his lady. He can get all the lovin he needs from you. So tell him your feelings and dont let some other girl cuddle with YOUR man.
yes !! i do agree with meagen to so u should tell ur man how u really feel so then he can get the hell of his “best girlfriend”and more on to u!! go to put ur foot down!!
Hell No Hell No Hell No Hell No!!!!!!! It’s not okay!!! I’ve been the best girlfriend and had the best guy friend and if you’re comfortable cuddling youre comfortable with more than that. Not to say that he’s doing anything more..it’s just not a good idea..my old guy friend and I used to cuddle a lot but I ended up questioning how I felt about him a lot because we were so comfortable. A strictly platonic relationship is damn near impossible..and I honestly don’t think he’s doing anythin…but he’s capable…and you don’t want a slip up and an oops I’m sorry I didn’t mean to…BREAK YOUR HEART! Trust me…no bueno. =)
What would your boyfriend think of you if you cuddle your male friend all night long? bet he wouldn’t like it. no man should sleep with another woman if he in an relationship. dump him.
Yeah I agree with all that! Do not settle for that, I also have been the best friend of a guy and if we were cuddling we were doing more than that….Not saying he is but just talk to him about it. He shouldn’t be cuddling with no one but you
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